Curiosity killed the Sex!!

Conversations. random questions, & just being around someone sparks the "sex" talk no matter what we talk about. It's not always the talk our parents have with us or when kids ask that famous question "Where do babies come from?" This topic was inspired by a random conversation. When it comes to the topic & curiosity about what sex really is, where did it come from, or how many different stages, phrases, or words describe this one word...curiousity begins to kick in. Well here's your chance to tell us what you think.

By the way if you ever Google anything & the results come up like the pic below...beware & proceed with caution if you dare to go forward!!!

Have you ever heard of Vanilla Sex?!

So let's start this off by giving you something to think about. Here's a highlight of vanilla sex, BDSM, & S&M.

Vanilla sex (conventional sex) is a sexual behavior that is within the range of normality for a culture or subculture, & typically involoves sex which does not include elements of BDSM, kink, or fetishism. The term "vanilla" has changed thru out the years depending on people's perception's, experiments, & expericences. Some people view it has normal, others view it as kinky & BDSM.

S&M means sadism & masochism...taking pleasure in inflicting pain & taking pleasure in experiencing pain. It's part of the term BDSM "Bondage & dominace/submission". BDSM are part of the psychological play of S&M. It means improvising together & in sharing the power with your own full consent.

Through out the years sex has become more than that, it has become foreplay, BDSM, S&M, & so much more. People have found different ways to get aroused before or during sex, or they find the weirdest things that'll give them the spark they're looking for like mechaphiles, infantilism, dendrophiles, or forniphilas.

So here's where my curiosity kicks in (what ypu do behind closed doors, is your business). I don't want to know what you do behind closed doors, I just want your opinion(s) & thoughts on this. Every second curiosity kills sex for me & it's just the conversations that rolls off the tongue of the person, especially lately. I can't look at these people the same.

Something to think about.

Now that you have a little more of an understanding what vanilla is & what BDSM is (or if you already knew), below are some questions. Just a few to give you something to think about or talk about amongst yourself or someone else, you never know this could turn out to be fun.

• Have you ever heard of Vanilla Sex before?

• What do you consider to be vanilla sex & would you say oral & anal classifies as vanila or BDSM with your own interpretation of this word?

• How would you categorize abnormal & normal & BDSM/S&M when it comes to the definition?

• Would you categorize yourself as vanilla (in your own interpretation) of the meaning?

If you want to turn this into a conversation with us, come over to the forum where the questions will be reposted, or you can just comment your thoughts below. Be our guest. & share in this moment of our first online interactions. You never know, we might all learn something new after this. Depending on how this goes, there may be more to come.

Thank you for your love & support, I hope you enjoyed reading this. If you have any ideas on a topic we should blog about or even start in a forum, don't hesistate let us know. All thoughts & opinions are welcomed.